10 Things You Must NOT Do in Malaysia

Malaysia (that country between Singapore and Thailand) is unique in that it’s a fusion of many different cultures, languages, and religions.

The country’s population is made up of approximately 55% Malays, 23% Chinese, and 7% Indians. And that’s not even including the many different indigenous tribes.

With such diversity, it’s understandable for a traveler to feel a little confused. What is Malaysian culture really like? Which customs do we follow? Is it a very conservative country?

Below is a list of things you should NOT do in Malaysia, covering both cultural norms and practical tips, that may save you from potentially awkward or even dangerous situations.

Trust me — I’m Malaysian.

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1. Insult the local food

Malaysians are very passionate about food, especially our own. We take so much pride in it that even when we travel abroad, we’re still on the hunt for nasi lemak (which can be difficult, because unlike Thai food, Malaysian food isn’t as widely available overseas).

It’s also a common cause of arguments between Malaysians, Singaporeans, and Indonesians, as we all like to debate the true origin of certain dishes.

To us, Malaysian food is simply the best cuisine in the world. So, the fastest way to make enemies is by insulting it in front of locals — or worse, by saying that Singaporean food is better (see #2).

On a similar note, try not to say anything negative about our national fruit — the durian — no matter how strong or off-putting you find the smell.

Personally, I agree with you. It’s… intense. But I wouldn’t say that out loud here. That would be the ultimate betrayal.

2. Compare Malaysia with Singapore

To understand this properly, we need to go over a bit of history. Before 1965, Singapore was part of Malaysia. Due to deep political and economic differences, it eventually separated and became an independent country. Since then, it has transformed itself into one of the most developed nations in the world.

The sibling rivalry between Malaysia and Singapore is still very much alive.

If I may put it this way, Singapore is like the unwanted child who left home, made it big, and now has a superiority complex, constantly reminding anyone who will listen that he’s the best.

Malaysia, on the other hand, is the envious big brother who is desperately trying to catch up and refuses to admit that his younger sibling is doing better.

So first, never say that Malaysia and Singapore are the same country — that will annoy both sides. Second, when you’re in Malaysia, avoid saying that Singapore is better, cleaner, or more efficient.

We know. We just don’t need to hear it from you.

3. Point with your forefinger

While pointing with your forefinger is normal in many parts of the world, it’s considered rude here, especially in Malay culture. It can come across as aggressive, bossy, or disrespectful.

If you need to point, use your thumb instead. For directions, an open palm works just fine too.

4. Trust the traffic signs

Traffic rules in Malaysia exist… in theory.

Drivers here are not exactly known for strict adherence to road rules. The unofficial hierarchy is: the bigger your vehicle, the more right of way you assume you have. Unfortunately, that puts pedestrians at the very bottom.

Even if you’re crossing at a designated pedestrian crossing or the traffic light says it’s your turn, never assume cars will stop. Always look both ways — even on a one-way street.

It sounds dramatic, but it’s genuinely a safety issue.

5. Use taxis

Taxis in Malaysia have a reputation, and not a great one.

Most taxis are equipped with meters, but drivers often prefer to quote a fixed (and usually inflated) fare. If you insist on using the meter, you might find yourself deliberately taken on a longer, more congested route anyway.

Tourists with big luggage are their favorite targets. They’ve been known to charge tourists more than five times the usual fare. But tourists are not their only victims. Even as a local, I often got scammed myself.

Tourists, especially those with luggage, are common targets. Some have been charged several times the usual fare. And it’s not just tourists. Even locals get overcharged.

These days, most people rely on e-hailing apps like Grab. It’s just easier, more transparent, and far less stressful.

6. Bring up race or religion

Malaysia is made up of many different ethnic and religious groups. On the surface, things may seem harmonious — and to a certain extent, they are.

But beneath that, these topics can be sensitive. Racial and religious issues are still very much present in public discourse, even if people don’t always talk about them openly.

As a visitor, it’s best to avoid bringing up these topics, especially in public or with people you don’t know well.

7. Call All Malaysians “Malays”

This is a common mistake.

“Malaysian” is a nationality. It refers to anyone who holds Malaysian citizenship — regardless of race or background. That includes Malays, Chinese Malaysians, Indian Malaysians, and various indigenous groups.

“Malay,” on the other hand, refers specifically to the ethnic Malay group, who are Muslim by definition under Malaysian law and form the majority of the population.

So calling all Malaysians “Malay” is not only inaccurate, but can also come across as dismissive or even offensive, especially to non-Malay Malaysians whose families have lived here for generations.

If you’re not sure, “Malaysian” is the safe and correct term.

8. Shake hands with the opposite sex

Malaysia is a predominantly Muslim country, and in Islam, physical contact between unrelated men and women is often avoided.

So don’t be offended if someone of the opposite sex declines your handshake. Not everyone practices this strictly, but it’s best not to initiate. Let them take the lead instead.

9. Go topless or strip naked

Due to cultural and religious norms, modesty is generally expected in public spaces. While tourists are given some leeway, going topless or nude is not acceptable and can get you into serious trouble.

In 2015, a group of foreign hikers was arrested, jailed, and fined for stripping naked at the summit of Mount Kinabalu.

Their actions caused public outrage because the mountain is considered sacred. Locals believe that the souls of their ancestors rest there for eternity. In the same month, an earthquake struck the mountain, killing 18. It was the first recorded earthquake in the area, which further convinced many locals that the mountain spirits had been angered by the act.

Regardless of your personal views, it’s important to respect local beliefs, especially in places that hold cultural or spiritual significance.

10. Go overboard with PDA

Final thoughts

So, there you have it — 10 things you shouldn’t do in Malaysia.

Every country has its good and its not-so-good sides, and part of traveling is experiencing both. If this list feels a bit heavy on the negatives, it’s only because I don’t think it helps to gloss over them.

I hope this doesn’t put you off visiting, though. Malaysians are generally warm, welcoming people… most of the time.

Unless you insult durian.

Then all bets are off.

Kidding.

…not.

If you made it this far without offending anyone, you’re off to a great start. For more Malaysia travel tips, destination ideas, and food recs, go explore the rest of the blog.